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I think blaming societal changes on women's rights is really unfair.. We still have a long way to go. Nobody talks about this but cases of domestic violence sky rocketed during the pandemic, and people being so isolated during these years forgot how to socialize. Hook up culture and disposability culture aren't due to women having more rights, they're caused by capitalism in my opinion. A lot of people want short term friendships and relationships and hook ups because the current social climate doesn't allow people to develop deeper connections. I blame social media etc. An avoidant attachment style is often due to trauma, but people behaving in an avoidant way, both men and women, is becoming more and more common..
It's not so much women's rights as the increase in divorce, and its devastating effects on children during adult life. This is what we're seeing all around us today, to a large extent. If a women is being abused, cheated on, then sure, divorce becomes almost inevitable. But seeing married or unmarried couples, who suddenly "don't go along together" separating often with insufficient efforts to patch things up, ends up setting up their children for a lifetime of relationship problems, or worse. Also maybe thinking more before having children would be a good idea.

I agree with all the technological factors you mention. They came up later, as an add-on to the problem I describe above that started to appear in the 80's-90's.
 

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I think blaming societal changes on women's rights is really unfair.. We still have a long way to go. Nobody talks about this but cases of domestic violence sky rocketed during the pandemic, and people being so isolated during these years forgot how to socialize. Hook up culture and disposability culture aren't due to women having more rights, they're caused by capitalism in my opinion. A lot of people want short term friendships and relationships and hook ups because the current social climate doesn't allow people to develop deeper connections. I blame social media etc. An avoidant attachment style is often due to trauma, but people behaving in an avoidant way, both men and women, is becoming more and more common..
This is where I respectfully disagree! Many know where I stand on this!

I feel like feminism is & was important - we’ve come a very long way and it was needed at some point in time, absolutely!

However, what more rights do we need? We have them all. Lots of these feminism movements have now bullied men and tried to erase them from society.

Real oppression still exists in other countries where women can’t sing, talk or read in public, child marriage and consent ages lowered to nine - those are real issues that come within that demographic and culture / religion that those men abide by. Here in the Americas, we have everything we need and more. and the abortion topic that everyone thinks Trump is getting rid of abortions is FALSE. It’s illegal to deny women’s rights. There’s a huggggge mishandling of horrible situations that happened to women in the states. But abortion is a state by state issue - it was an issue way before the orange man came into office. He was once president he never banned it.

I’m friends with a liberal OG feminist and she tells me how she’s fed up with the new feminism movement. The new crowd actually makes it harder to talk about real issues for women. She says that there’s a lot of mental illness in these new trendy groups at the clinic she works in. They quibble about pronouns and are extreme in their demands and the real, core issues never get the focus they deserve.

What I find most laughable is this whole: a man is a woman and a woman is a man.
The woke crowd goes real silent though when MALE prisoners who get transferred into women’s prisons beat, r*pe and impregnate these women.
They get reduced sentences just because of how they identify.
What about the women who were abused and found their safe spaces in a breastfeeding group? - to now see a man come in and lurk at them and join the conversation.

Un moment donné là ça suffit le niaisage. It starts to become a privilege and not so much a right. And this is what happens when privilege is given to people who have mental illness.

Also am friends with OG or “normal” trans and gays HAHAH. My friend Buck Angel is one of them. He knows he has a mental disorder and he vouches for kids (gender anffirming care. Shouldn’t even be a thing! That’s child abuse) and women who are also now being erased from the woke and rainbow crowd. Everybody has their rights. Even gays and trans. The “normal” ones (we all laugh lmao because it’s become ridiculous) don’t go around screaming and parading naked in crowds to feel accepted. They just fly under the radar because that’s what they wanna do. They don’t wanna bring attention to themselves. They wanna live as the other sex and go unnoticed and don’t impose their personal choices onto society.
 
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