Ask us anything

[Fradi]

I may be wrong but I would think most SP when they quit and decide to find love and a relationship want it to be monogamous.
I think they have probably had more than enough of seeing many men and want someone to love them and them alone.
Personally I don’t believe in cheating and believe that if you are in love with someone they and your family and how to provide a better life for them should be your main goal.
Cheating only leads to jealousy and mistrust and a relationship without trust is doomed.
For some an open relationship may work, for me it would not, I don’t believe in sharing the one I love nor do I believe in deceiving her.

 

[AlmostMidaged]

I don’t think it is worse.
How do you find meaning very easy if you have a loving family you spend time with your children and grandchildren, nothing beats being surrounded by your loved ones.
If you have a group of friends , you get together to play golf with have lunch with go on vacations life doesn’t have to be about survival and work only.
Too many people focus on politics what is wrong with the world etc.. instead of enjoying the simple things and their family.
I guess over time when you get older you realize what is really important to you and you blot out the rest.

Yes it also helps if you happen to know an absolutely gorgeous young lady and you can spend time with her occasionally.

I’m too young to have grand kids. Lol. I don’t have any kids that I know of.
My friends have young children and limited free time. If if they could afford to go on vacation, it’s not possible to coordinate mine with them.
I never cared about politics. It’s a waste of time.
Unless you’re like early twenties just getting older doesn’t bring new found realizations of what’s important. Life events do, I’d say.

ON TOPIC:…
What are your 3 favourite movies? Why?

 

[Fradi]

Unless you’re like early twenties just getting older doesn’t bring new found realizations of what’s important. Life events do, I’d say.

ON TOPIC:…
What are your 3 favourite movies? Why?

How do you get life events without getting older lol.

1 The godfather.
2. Lord of the rings
3 The good bad and the ugly.

 

[neverbored]

Do you close your eyes during sex?
Sometimes.

When you close your eyes, to you visualize or do you imagine the feeling ?

 

[Rebaynia]

1 Do you close your eyes during sex?
If not
Where do you like to focus your eyes on during sex ?

I tend to close my eyes. I'm not an eye contact type of person it makes me feel REALLY uncomfortable. I don't read people threw eyes like others seem to, and apparently i express everything threw my own. ??? .. Whatever that means. So i keep them closed most of the time to allow them to enjoy what the body says since there is a great disconnect between the body and mind for me. I do make eyecontact when they ask for it, but it won't last long.
Often i allow myself to be off into a kinky fantasy that will keep, or get me excited while he enjoys what he is doing, or i am doing to him.

2. Do you prefer music prior and during sex.
if you do what’s typical playlist you like?

Music is nice to have background sound. When it is too quiet it just feels boring. Besides music can make it more fun by giving a tempo or pace to play with.

I like mostly 90s music or mettle. Soft or romantic is nice too. Just not rap or electronic music.

 

[Rebaynia]

ON TOPIC:…
What are your 3 favourite movies? Why?

I don't have any favorite movies. I will watch a movie a total of 3 times, it will be imprinted in my memory, and i can recall the movie at a later date be it weeks, months, or years later, almost in detail, like watching it again in the mind. Once a movie is imprinted, I move on to another thing to watch to entertain myself.
I am bad with titles and names, so i can't remember what the movies are called or who plays in them, but the situation, storyline, and characters often stick.

The only movies I tend to keep coming back to are stand up comedians.

Oh one series I have enjoyed a few times over was bigmouth from netflix. Not a movie per say, but show series often just play out as a really long movie as far as I'm concerned.

 

[LC18]

When you close your eyes, to you visualize or do you imagine the feeling ?

When you close your eyes, to you visualize or do you imagine the feeling ?
I only close my eyes to switch things up a little. Don’t want to spend the whole time staring at them. O.O

 

[Nachoy]

Would you ever consider being a client and paying for companionship ?

 

[LC18]

Would you ever consider being a client and paying for companionship ?

Would you ever consider being a client and paying for companionship ?
Yes, if I wanted someone simple. Just sex and nothing more but right now I still need to be able to send messages throughout the day and memes so booking a male companion wouldn’t be ideal.

 

[Rebaynia]

Would you ever consider being a client and paying for companionship ?

Lol.. back when I was 19 I tried this. I asked for a guy who was in his 20's and had a guy who looked to be in his late 30's show up lol, sure he was in shape, but was disappointed to see what to me at that time was an old man show up, when i wanted someone close to my age. It really wasn't anything to brag about. Another man with an inflated ego on thinking fucking is how to please a woman. I was disappointed and decided it wasn't worth it.

I've had better men and better expieriences from dating sites when I was single from guys looking to earn a place as a regular ff. What can I say when single I played guys like guys get accused of playing girls. Difference being, dealing with men ment I could be honest with them, and they all knew about eachother. I had a personal rule of, if it wasn't established as a monogamous relationship, then I'm under the assumption your dateing other people, so so am I, and I am not the type to hide it. (It was also a protective mechanism to not fall for someome who would inevitably break my heart if I got too attached)

 

[DouMan]

(It was also a protective mechanism to not fall for someome who would inevitably break my heart if I got too attached)

 

[Nachoy]

The SP’s main job is to please their clients and be appreciated and rewarded
How important is it to you that you get pleased sexually as much as the client during the session?

 

[Rebaynia]

When I fall, I fall hard and my heart can be hurt too easily. And after being hurt so much in life. I was dead set against falling in love again.

It took my kids pushing me that I deserved love, and self work to see men as more than just toys to play with (viewing men the way misogynistic men view women, after a long time of being a single mom), and a relationship where he had to fight with me to break down barriers to try and show me love was worth taking a gamble on.

Unfortunately I needed what I have with my master now, and that relationship with that ex wasn't it. When I had to shut down my ability to enjoy kink for that relationship, it shut down my desire in life all together.

My master tends to focus more on rebuilding my mental health, and attempts to get me back to when I was able to enjoy life, while ensuring I have the best of both worlds, fun while working, and I get my kink and love with him. And my submissive heart is protected by him.

 

[Rebaynia]

The SP’s main job is to please their clients and be appreciated and rewarded
How important is it to you that you get pleased sexually as much as the client during the session?

I tend to have more fun treating clients as toys. Seeing them as puzzles, what makes them tick, till they explode. Sex aside it is more important they treat me as an equal and appreciate me as a person. I am flattered when they want to try to please me, but I am not easy to please. So it is nice when we get time to connect in other ways than just their pleasure.

 

[NatashaSnow]

The SP’s main job is to please their clients and be appreciated and rewarded
How important is it to you that you get pleased sexually as much as the client during the session?

zero.

*However*, i will be significantly more important to me if i see it really matters to you. Matter as in genuinely wanting to reciprocate and give pleasure and not doing all sorts of crazy fuckery under the pretext of caring about giving said pleasure but just wants to give himself asspats afterwards.
One obviously is alert to my reactions and sometimes even engages a feedback loop. The other is on his own planet.
For the former group, i want you to have the best time and that clearly includes my pleasure and so I will guide to that. The latter i won’t bother.

 

[FrenchSecrets]

When I fall, I fall hard and my heart can be hurt too easily. And after being hurt so much in life. I was dead set against falling in love again.

It took my kids pushing me that I deserved love, and self work to see men as more than just toys to play with (viewing men the way misogynistic men view women, after a long time of being a single mom), and a relationship where he had to fight with me to break down barriers to try and show me love was worth taking a gamble on.

Unfortunately I needed what I have with my master now, and that relationship with that ex wasn't it. When I had to shut down my ability to enjoy kink for that relationship, it shut down my desire in life all together.

My master tends to focus more on rebuilding my mental health, and attempts to get me back to when I was able to enjoy life, while ensuring I have the best of both worlds, fun while working, and I get my kink and love with him. And my submissive heart is protected by him.

I enjoy my mistress as I learned that my libido is much more stronger than being in a normal relationship ! I can be free and do things I could not do before!

 

[Giselle Montreal]

The SP’s main job is to please their clients and be appreciated and rewarded
How important is it to you that you get pleased sexually as much as the client during the session?

Not important.

It is not my moment, it is yours! And often, clients confuse pleasure with orgasm. One of the things that turns me off the most is when a client says that he won't come before I do. I come when I feel I want to, because the moment and our energy get me there, not because I am physically stimulated or we ask me to. I do not come every time I have intercourse, and pressuring me to orgasm is setting yourself up for failure. Sex to me is far more than an orgasm. I find pleasure in many ways during our encounter, and it's not only sexual!

 

[Nachoy]

Orgasm.
Can tell in men by much cum he can shot out
How do I know if a woman cums/orgasm?
Is there a physical sign?
Not every woman squirts

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Orgasm.
Can tell in men by much cum he can shot out
How do I know if a woman cums/orgasm?
Is there a physical sign?
Not every woman squirts

Everyone is different but usually there are contractions in the vaginal canal and the clitoris is more erected with excitation. However, just ask your partner and believe them. Orgasms should never be pressured and usually the more you press for an orgasm and the less likely you will give one to your partner I know I have very specific ways to make myself orgasmed and sometimes I have a better time without orgasms, it depends on the moment I am in my menstrual cycle.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Would you ever consider being a client and paying for companionship ?

I already did twice in the past. But right now I do not feel like it. I don't really like to have this kind of relationship with my colleagues (paying them) but this could change depending on the situation. I am always afraid I would contribute to the exploitation of someone so I would be very specific in who I choose to hire. I do like when my colleagues hire me, I feel extra special and lucky