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I enjoyed receiving gift cards that allowed me to choose things that I wanted for myself. Any gift that is genuine is appreciated but unless you’re a regular , you often haven’t a clue about what I like/am passionate about. So in that case gift cards are appreciated!
When I am lied to about the address or apartment number..
I have had guys try and meet me at my car and try to guide me to the back door to the wrong address so I wouldn't notice (I did, addresses are on the back of buildings as well as the front). or when I showed up at an apartment building and they think it's no big deal that they mislead me.. but I've been lied to I won't go in and I wont return. I don't give multiple chances... I have major trust issues, and if he's lying about that what other forms of disrespect am I in for, and mistrust his entire intent because he is trying to pull one over on me for the location. Even as indy, I let someone know where I am in case something bad happens.. and if that person doesn't have the correct info for my safety then I don't feel safe...
oh and if they try to short change me the price, get there and they say i only have x amount, i hand them back their money and walk out... some will magically find the missing amount... some are flabbergasted that I have no interest in being short changed and will walk away with nothing over $5. It's the disrespect to me... I have a no tolerance to any form of disrespect.
I do have a certain traditional idea of gender role. Let’s say traditional but with a modern touch! I prone equality of gender but I do think that a few things are made for only men do to like mowing the lawn or being the provider of the household.
I was born and raised in a culture where the man is the main breadwinner of the household so I will love to have something similar with equality in other aspects of life. ( don’t know if it makes sense what I’m trying to explain )
* that’s my personal belief don’t come after please lol!
Since being independent I never refuse someone at their arrival. I’m grateful that I met really clean and respectful clients. I did have a situation where I was going to stop the appointment because the guy was trying to not respect my boundaries. Didn’t cross it but still! I told you NO once it should be enough to stop trying!
And I never let him book another appointment again.
I always refuse the person before the appointment because usually I was feeling either not safe to meet or he was bargaining my rate which is a huge turn off for me. I won’t be able to let you fuck me if I know you think I’m not worth my rate.
What I do often but hate doing is to fired regular clients because they think they are entitled for a discount or free time.
Same! I tend to repeat the price in the confirmation message to not have to deal with this kind of guy trying to short me 10-20$! If you don’t have the amount we decided before I get there I’m sorry but I’m doing nothing. You knew you didn’t have the correct amount but still tried to push your way. Such a disrespectful thing and so insulting!
Thankfully I never had to deal with that. I always get the exact money or a tip. For a lot of people I sound too « hard » when chatting especially for Outcalls but after meeting me they find me like a sweet heart.
Moi mon cadeau le plus important jusqu’à date a été ma voiture. Il m’as offert l’argent pour que j’aille l’acheter. Toujours reconnaissante et je manifeste de plus gros cadeau. Sinon dernièrement je me fais offrir des robes ou vêtements spécifiques qu’ils veulent que je mette. J’ai eu également deux voyages à Vancouver payer par un Mr sans même l’avoir rencontré et en début Octobre j’ai un voyage pour Toronto avec un autre Mr. On va pas faire les boutiques ou des choses extra mais juste le fait de payer pour mon déplacement plus pour mon temps c’est déjà énorme pour moi. Mon premier voyage à Calgary semi-payé également. Pour mon anniversaire j’ai reçu des parfums; des fleurs; des cartes et une invitation au restaurant. J’ai eu aussi beaucoup de chocolats car j’ai une dent sucré hihi
La liste peut être longue car toutes les attentions comptent pour moi (petite ou grande)
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My most important and biggest gift has been my car. He offered me the money to go buy it. Always grateful and Im manifesting bigger gifts. Otherwise lately I'm being offered specific dresses or clothes that they want me to wear. I also had two trips to Vancouver paid by a Mr without even meeting him and in early October Im having a trip to Toronto with another Mr. We're not going to shop or do extra things but just paying for my trip plus for my time is already huge for me. For my birthday I received perfumes; flowers; cards and an invitation to the restaurant. I also had a lot of chocolates because I have a sweet tooth hihi
The list can be long because for me everything is special as long as you think about me!
(either big or small)
I was raised in a single parent home. and for myself much of my time as a parent I was alone myself (I didn't believe in staying with a sub-par man just because he got me pregnant) unfortunately it also meant I didn't know how to find a good man, and seemed to attract men who eventually I would just realize held me back in life. so had to be both the bread winner and the home maker, because only men who were willing to settle for a single mom and ex escort were ones who weren't exactly good catches. (i had the lowest self esteem) either they didn't work, or if they did, didn't really contribute much, or anything at all for some.. I saw them as good for nothing else but giving me orgasms... my attitude has changed some over the years (or maybe not.. lol.. now men support me with sex instead of me supporting them for it.. ) but each relationship seemed to be 1 step closer to better men each time.
But after my life, I get to say what I have in my life I earned myself. It was hard work and earned and haven't really had handouts.
For the longest time I cursed feminism because what it seemed to have produced was men who were more than willing to sit back and do nothing now that the woman was expected to do everything... I always wished it wasn't like that. My relationship now is very different than the ones in the past, and the gender roles are more in place with our m/s relationship, I finally get to feel like the woman in the relationship than feeling like I was carrying dead weight just to be viewed as a respectable woman in a relationship. (threw respectability out the window and berried myself in my deep dark fantasy world now)
I'm kind of a cautionary tale of what could happen I guess... after quitting escorting for a love that didn't work out and having a kid, and being back in the dating world, when the job done in the past was brought up, more then enough men, one after another, made sure to let me know I was the dirtiest piece of crap out there, even though all my life I have been perceived as a sweetheart. Till there was no self esteem and self worth left... I spent 20 years building it back up, to find this is where I am happiest, and in a relationship who accepts me for it, and keeps me built up to enjoy it as i still struggle with the nasty things said to me in the past for having done it to begin with.
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Because most men don’t read anyway! So no need to write a bunch of things. You can write it’s free service if you text the word « pineapple » and 99% of them will pass behind because they didn’t read; they didn’t even look correctly at your pictures and they will be asking you in dms if you are white or black lol’llll! Or to send extra pictures to remember who you are. They text a bunch of girls at the same time.
I do write everything that you need to know in my ads just in case and those that reads it get to book me accordingly. Makes me extra hornier when they fill in my booking form on my website or give every information in only one message while finding me on Leolist!
Are these men that do these things for you extremely wealthy? Or are they stretching themselves? I make a lot of money relatively, but paying for a trip+time with a provider adds up quickly for anybody. I had someone pay my rent in the past and more recently, I had a client buying flight tickets for my baby and I. I do get other expensive ish gifts from time to time.
They’re all single with children that don’t live with them so a little more disposable income I guess. They have good jobs and we have great relationships as far as it goes in this world. We do chat outside of our paid encounters.
Seeing their lifestyle those men are wealthy! But I do have really wealthy clients that pay my rate no tip or no gift at all. And that’s okay too! I prefer that than someone who gift me something and when we have a disagreement he then start remembering all the gifts and how he helped me bla-bla-bla. I think if you do appreciate someone it comes naturally to gift them even if you are not wealthy.
My most frequent gifts (smaller ones) comes from my mid-revenue clients. The importance is not how big the gift is it’s the intention of the gift and if the gift is useful or not. But regardless it’s still a gift!
Most of my expensive gifts comes from 50+ years married men ( oupsi )!
Ladies who are un the sex business, what are your views about all that non-binary thing? You can't have non- binary sex, or can you?
I don't think there is any difference in non-binary sex.. it's just playing with whatever part is being provided, pleasing whatever the sexual organ is regardless of the identified gender... .. there just might sometimes be a discussion to be had at the beginning about any body parts they might wish you to avoid. often there might be a case of body dysmorphia to be aware of in handling them.. It's also possible some might even just be looking for a girl with a stapon and avoid their member all together.. but it is a very rare situation.
Three times. Once, the guy gave me the ick feeling I couldn’t shake and I didn’t feel comfortable with him in my space. And twice for hygiene reasons. They showed up looking as if the belonged outside a metro begging .
Not likely... I don't shave it off to add fake pubes... I can just imagine how uncomfortable that must feel, seeing as the real deal was uncomfortable enough to need to get rid of it. Just the idea of what that must feel like is giving me the icks.
When I started last year I wasn’t doing enough to declare it. So I will just try to spend the most I can cash and the rest I will put it in my bank. But this year I’m making really interesting amounts even though I’m not full time in this industry and I hate keeping cash on me or in my house. So I created a legal registered business with a business bank account. At the end of the year I will declare what I made and pay taxes like every body. I have to save up enough money to prepare myself for the taxes next year. Within a year or two I will be able to use my business annual income to have credibility and do things like buying a brand new car or buying a house etc.
If you want to do things with your money in the future you either create a business or have a second job that pays well so that the bank don’t get too suspicious with the transactions in your account but even with that you will eventually get flagged and loss your account.
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