Disturbing Tendencies at Agencies

[Toto beefcake]

You misunderstand, nobody has to behave in ANY way, you may choose not to see whomever you see fit for any reason no matter how minute, and that is ok

Such a rational statement. Yet it got turned to your a racist lol. Wtf . The sps commenting saying its racist should be happy. More work will come their way. And the people complaining, theres other choices . Very simple enjoy

 

[Toto beefcake]

It’s obviously RACISM.
Excluding someone on the basis of their race IS the definition of racism.

Really? I dont like fking asian women or blacks and muslims . Thats racist?

 

[PSEfreak]

This topic is a perfect reflection of this new trend in todays society.

Your trying to tell people they can't have preferences?
Your trying to tell people they have to do things they are uncomfortable with?

Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE exercises their particular preferences on a whole host of things on a daily basis.
A quick peruse through tinder and I will be automatically be excluded by 80% of the woman on that app for things out of my control. My height being just 1

What if these SP's had a negative experience with a person of a culture or race? An experience that marked them, what are you supposed to say - "too bad, deal with it or your racist?"

Just a few days ago I posted an experience here in another thread on Merb that I had with an SP who literally ran out of the room because I reminded her of someone that she felt threatened her.
https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/have-you-ever-been-refused-by-a-sp.235346/page-3 ( post#54 )
She had every right to say no and leave.

I'm neither black, nor Indian, but white as can be. That lady and every person has the right to not service anyone they wish. Just like I have the right to refuse service to anyone I don't like at my business.
I've also had terrible experiences with a certain race of providers, I prefer to avoid them now.

 

[Carl.is.Jung]

Let me just say as a final thought on this thread.

I don't see Black or Indian or Asian women. But my oldest and closest friend is black.

Racism or personal sexual preference?

Audi5000

 

[Toto beefcake]

Let me just say as a final thought on this thread.

I don't see Black or Indian or Asian women. But my oldest and closest friend is black.

Racism or personal sexual preference?

Audi5000

I cant believe this even has to be said out loud and be justified. Completely ridiculous. Well said

 

[Francoquart]

Let me just say as a final thought on this thread.

I don't see Black or Indian or Asian women. But my oldest and closest friend is black.

Racism or personal sexual preference?

Audi5000

Sexual preference. I cannot have an erection with fat girls, but i do not hate them or treat them with any disrespect. I think it falls more into this of category. Racism should not include preferences, only rights and duties in my opinion. These days there is a drama tendency in almost every issue.

 

[EagerBeaver]

It’s obviously RACISM.
Excluding someone on the basis of their race IS the definition of racism.

No it's not. It's exclusion based on privacy/discretion reasons. The intent is to not be recognized and outed, not to restrict service based on race.

 

[MichelleMontreal]

Racism

1. prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism by an individual, community, or institution against a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized.

2. the belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another.

Here it is again for those who need a reminder

 

[PSEfreak]

Here it is again for those who need a reminder

Believing this is racist. I think you are racist. Stop trying to impose your beliefs and definitions on people. Stop trying to tell people they are not allowed to have preferences, sexual or otherwise.

See how that works both ways

I find tattoo's unattractive
I find fat and obese woman unattractive
I find armpit hair unattractive
I find certain races unattractive

One of my best friends was rejected by a beautiful black woman because he was white. He didn't start yelling racism, that was her preference. That's ok and her right

 

[Jordd]

but you do agree these call girls are offering a businesslike service and they are not marrying us for the rest of our lives. Yes not Barber or else.....but i laugh when i say intimate. These women have been "had "by so many men that it is not an intimate act anymore but an act and a job . So comparing these escorts to normal women is not fair...especially when they are taking money and supposed to be offering a service .But i guess they can get away with it because we allow it .

You are sounding like a rapist.
It doesn’t matter how many men they’ve been "had" by. They’re not an expendable commodity. They are people. They are offering a most intimate experience and their bodies. So they can provide or withhold it from whomever they want. Otherwise it’s rape.
Are you also anti-abortion?

 

[MichelleMontreal]

Believing this is racist. I think you are racist. Stop trying to impose your beliefs and definitions on people. Stop trying to tell people they are not allowed to have preferences, sexual or otherwise.

See how that works both ways

no, sorry you're making no sense, I'm quoting a definition and have otherwise not contributed to the thread.

 

[EagerBeaver]

no, sorry you're making no sense, I'm quoting a definition and have otherwise not contributed to the thread.

But you're not apparently understanding the application of the definition. There is no discrimination or prejudice based on race when persons are excluded solely based on privacy or discretion factors. You cited a definition. The important part is applying it to the facts at hand.

 

[Jordd]

But they are still fully booked right ? While I understand why it must be infuriating, I think they are in a position to do that. Whether it's because of a past experience, a personal preference or just because it allows them to be more at ease, I think the word racism is badly used here. They might have friends of different ethnicities, heck they might hang out with guys of different ethnicities but in this line of work they are allowed to have some choice of freedom.

Same thing as those who don't do duo or girls. Do you see couple or girls complaining about sexism or ageism ?? The racism card is called upon way too often imo.

Exactly, they may even be DATING someone from that ethnicity.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

This is the most retarted thread ive ever read lol

Entertaining AF thought! I’m out of popcorn!

 

[Jordd]

I can't read past that. This is stupid. Stop reading anti-sexwork books.

Hmmm I thought that was a fair point. Many sex workers dissociate while they are with a client. Whether others are able to work without dissociating, I don’t know and I’m not well-placed to be commenting on that.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Stop trying to impose your beliefs and definitions on people.

But that’s exactly what you are doing no?

 

[Jordd]

I'm totally screwed once they start listing "No ugly men" as a restriction...

SO ARE THEY! NO MORE BUSINESS!!!!

 

[PSEfreak]

But that’s exactly what you are doing no?

But that’s exactly what you are doing no?

In a sense I guess I am.

Some people are saying you aren't allowed to say no and I am saying the opposite

 

[Jordd]

I remember years ago I saw an SP who had a 180 pound weight restriction. At the time, I weighed 175 and could see her; now I am well over 180 and would fail the weight restriction. Overfiend and his fellow protectors of the "entitlement to service" would say she was prejudiced against fat men. Racist against the obese.

Maybe she weighed 120lbs and her bed was break-tested for max 300 lbs (from IKEA) !

 

[Toto beefcake]

But that’s exactly what you are doing no?

Nahhh he was making a point

In a sense I guess I am.

Some people are saying you aren't allowed to say no and I am saying the opposite

seems like you cant even make a point lol