Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

So picking the girl up, spinning around and motor boating her tits is a no-no?

In all seriousness tho lol I think if I had been asked that question 1 or 2 years ago, the answer would have been a definite no.. But my clientele changed drastically in the past 12 months, for the better. I am a bit less ''strict'' with certain things than I was before because of that..

 

[jeffmathers]

To SPs,

Let's say you have a regular client. You run into them out in the wild and are alone (not with friends, kids, significant others). Can they say hi or come up as a friend would or hell no stay the f away?

I'm not an SP and every provider is different but I like to be safe than sorry and not acknowledge it. In 2019 one Vancouver provider that never posts their face online made a lot of posts complaining about people waving and yelling "Hey [name of provider]!"

I can see how that would feel awful around friends, family, or just not wanting to have the celebrity treatment.

 

[Rebaynia]

To SPs,

Let's say you have a regular client. You run into them out in the wild and are alone (not with friends, kids, significant others). Can they say hi or come up as a friend would or hell no stay the f away?

When I am in my own head, I am clueless about people in my surroundings. Not only might I not see them, it might take a moment to realize this is someone I should recognize. I have even walked past my own mother in the streets without recognizing someone I knew passed by.

Or

I wave and smile to strangers all the time. Some just faces I have seen for many years and never spoke to. It doesn't cost anything to offer people a genuine smile, and I have been told how it can even brightens someone's day. So if the simplest way I can make someone I don't knows day brighter, is a smile, and a "Have a lovely day." Sounds simple enough to me to get someone else to smile.

But to just come up to me if I haven't given off the impression I recognize them, or am open to conversation, could lead to awkward moments. I am used to people I don't know staring, or having polite greetings. I seem to give off a very approachable vibe, WHEN I am out of my introverted mind, I am a social butterfly.

 

[DenisZim]

Do men really find that look attractive? Someone I know just posted her photos in story calling her lips “goals” and I had to check I was fully awake and not just having a nightmare. I am sorry to this woman but she probably needs one or several visits with a psy

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Do men really find that look attractive? -Yes. She did this for a purpose. Men are definitely responsible for all these metamorphoses. Nowadays it's terribly difficult to meet a man who can charm you with his views.

 

[jeffmathers]

If there was one additional change to merb that helped providers what would you want it to be? Obviously I don't have the power to change anything and I'm not a provider but I'm imagining "What if every provider could have two personas/accounts?". For example some people want to offer gfe (because it's popular) and bdsm but they don't want their gfe branding to be affected.