I was not saying that * to you *. It was something I had to say for everyone to read.
Ask us anything part 3
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This is one definition, but it isn't the only definition. It's the blind spot.
Some people just want to argue it seems. Feels like each side isn't even talking about the same thing. One side says visiting SPs can be therapeutic, while the other side is saying it's not therapy. Maybe I missed it, but I didn't see anyone claiming that seeing SPs have cured them of their depression or anything. Not everything therapeutic is therapy.The original question was "what do SP's bring to your life other than sexual gratification?"
And yes they probably can bring something else as @Giselle Montreal said (several times if i'm not mistaken.)
As i mentioned they have much more experience with clients than all of us combined.
Not exactly sure why this derailed into a "are SPs therapists?" discussion because they're not and i don't think they claim to be but yeah they bring confort to some and that's a pretty good thing, again we are not the same and obviously not looking for the same things which is quite reassuring i think.
No, that pretty much literally is the definition, allowing for different word usage. Here's 3 dictionary definitions for you. 1) the treatment of disease or disorders, as by some remedial, rehabilitating, or curative process, 2) medical treatment of impairment, injury, disease, or disorder, 3) the treatment of a physical problem or an illness or the treatment of problems with somebody's mental health by talking with them
Now, how you choose to interpret the word "therapy" is up to you. You also really don't need to be in there defending the SPs though, because I'm not attacking them. It's not a "for" or "against" statement. It's a distinction between one type of beneficial procss and another one.
Since I don't intend to enter into a protracted and ultimately useless argument about semantics I'll leave it up to you guys to duke it out while I take myself elsewhere to other topics. Enjoy.
Many interesting points have been put forward but aren't we waaaay overthinking this therapy thing? Let's not forget that we are talking about a pleasant encounter with a woman, a SP, in order to have a good time and, oh almost forgot studying for my psyxxx doctorate, maybe even sex. I don't really care what the definition of psy-this or psy-that is. We do not meet in order to re-write the theory of relativity, we meet to enjoy the moment and to leave feeling good.
So easy to understand that it goes way over some people's heads.
Je charge 100$ d'extra par heure parce que le service est plus complexe et demande plus de préparations.. j'ai eu une bonne experience avec un couple! Mais je m'attends a parler aux deux personnes et à ce que les attentes soient clairement definies.. j'ai entendu que souvent un des membres du couple mets de la pression pour avoir une expérience avec une TDS et c'est une situation qui me rendrait extrèmement inconfortable.. si c'est un couple HF je préfère donner plus de mon attention à la femme car souvent le but de ces rencontres est de permettre aux femmes d'expérimenter avec la bisexualitéQuel est votre rapport / vos réactions / vos attentes lorsqu'un couple HF vous sollicite pour vous joindre à eux? Et est-ce que vos tarifs diffèrent en ce sens?
Merci, mesdames.
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When you are having sex with your ATF or any SPs , do you ever think about your wife?For me the 2 ladies I see most often have become dear friends. They are amazing young ladies who are not only gorgeous but kind, funny, and just fabulous young women.
They have made my life so much better, it eases the passing of my wife somewhat and I will always be grateful for them being in my life.
Especially with my ATF we talk often and I think the relationship is much more than just sexual gratification.
I would be more than happy to drive them to Costco or anywhere lol
Like is there something similar that new partner does that reminds you of having sex with your wife?
I think you should play video games or do crossword puzzles
Fradi is a sweet man. He thinks of his wife as a comparison for the companionship that SP’s give him. I’m just wondering if the sexual gratification with SPs is just as good/better and also a reminder of his sex life of his wife
There are a lot of other men that are married that have sex outside their marriage as pure sexual gratification that they can’t receive in their marriage. They don’t care deeply for Sps like Fradi and it’s just a purely transaction sex relationship. The question was direct to a decent man like Fradi if the sex was comparable
There are a lot of other men that are married that have sex outside their marriage as pure sexual gratification that they can’t receive in their marriage. They don’t care deeply for Sps like Fradi and it’s just a purely transaction sex relationship. The question was direct to a decent man like Fradi if the sex was comparable
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I wish there was a bigger choice of emojis we could use here lol
I don’t know what you are talking about. I think you completely misunderstood.
There will never be an SP that will remotely compare to my wife
She was the person I loved the most in this world or ever will.
SP are a nice fantasy but you can never compare them to your wife the mother of your children.
People need to live in the real world how on earth can you compare a paid for sex fantasy to someone you share your life and love with.
SP if you are lucky enough to form a friendship with are amazing to spend time with, but it is a paid for transaction, a job and income for them and a fantasy for you. They are not in love with you and hopefully you don’t make the mistake of falling in love with them other than loving them as a friend.
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i know you're not asking me but it's a deeply personal question.
Also not all clients have wives.. A lot of my clients are single and don't have time to meet anyone or they hire SP's because they don't want to be in a committed relationship due to past heart break or similar things. Some of my clients are in their 20's and don't have a lot of experience with relationships, too.
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