hard question for me to answer these days, i used to meet a SW regularly and we had some kind of connection but she's on hiatus and will most likely leave the business. So the only connections i have are sexual for the time being.
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Pretty sure I’ve already asked but when do you normally consult ads? Morning, lunch break, evening or anytime you’re horny?
Pretty sure I’ve already asked but when do you normally consult ads? Morning, lunch break, evening or anytime you’re horny?
Anytime, never when I am horny! That is a high risk of disaster. When I am horny its time to book with one that already made it to the list. I am not a compulsive consumer so, I buy when I’m done shopping and I shop when I am not in need. If that makes any sense.
I consult Merb every morning while drinking my coffee and water
I think maybe this emotional stuff is way overrated.Nudist resorts and swingers resorts are indeed very different things! I'm sorry people were judgemental.
I think when it comes to SP's everyone has their own tolerance level. I'm used to hearing really tough stories and I have experience with people who suffered from a lot of trauma so I'm okay with listening to all kinds of things and even welcome it, but it's always good to ask before bringing up certain subjects.
Yes I will always feel the pain of losing the woman of my dreams the mother of my children but that is not what we talk about or dwell on with my ATF.
She is much more like a dear friend or family member we talk about all kinds of things mostly lite stuff, we joke, we laugh, share a bottle of wine some snacks talk about vacations family get togethers just everyday things, rarely if something bad or important happens yes we talk about it, it is not a therapy session, would we be there for each other if we needed a shoulder to lean on yes but it is mostly just fun.
What do you mean by "overrated"?
The "emotional stuff" to use your words isn't an absolute truth like gravity, what may not be a need for you may be one for someone else or did i misunderstand what you meant?
OP and the mods say we shouldn't be getting into arguments here. But I don't think anyone should judge other client's needs. Some people book us because they need someone to talk to in an intimate context, and that's one of the reasons why sex workers are in demand.
Let's just move on to asking and answering questions..
My question to clients : why do you, or other clients, ask for services that are not offered in the ad or complain about things that weren't offered in the first place? This isn't really a rant on my part, but more something I find puzzling. I've had members of this board ask for things I don't advertise.
Another question : why is it so common for clients to not read our ads fully or at all? this is particularly prevalent on LL, but I've even had people from here ask for my rates and services when they are in plain sight
Last question : why do some clients keep various phone numbers of different providers and contact them without remembering who they are? this is quite common, and I want to understand the psychology behind it.
Let's just move on to asking and answering questions..
My question to clients : why do you, or other clients, ask for services that are not offered in the ad or complain about things that weren't offered in the first place? This isn't really a rant on my part, but more something I find puzzling. I've had members of this board ask for things I don't advertise.
Another question : why is it so common for clients to not read our ads fully or at all? this is particularly prevalent on LL, but I've even had people from here ask for my rates and services when they are in plain sight
Last question : why do some clients keep various phone numbers of different providers and contact them without remembering who they are? this is quite common, and I want to understand the psychology behind it.
Sex workers are not therapists or medical professionals and they usually have as many or more troubles, hang ups and addictions just like clients so using them as a crutch for your problems is not very bright.
If you developed a friendship with them that is great and some are exceptionally nice people to be with.
I mean don’t use them as a crutch for your problems they are not doctors or therapists.
Get off your White Knight horse.
If anybody cares or treats these ladies with kindness and respect I am one of them.
Go ask one that I see and have reviewed.
They are not doctors or therapists, they are not there to solve your addictions and hang ups they have as many or more emotional problems like you do.
Go see a doctor or a real therapist.
English isn't my first language so hopefully you'll excuse me if i wasn't clear. I think a simple question which is, do you think your needs are the same as the rest of us? which would explain how you so easily pass judgment on the rest of us white knights.
To all 3 questions I would answer: boner.
We know that a hard-on takes a lot of blood, some of it stolen from our top brain which is already busy sending commands to our digits to wack off while reading (leaves very little for judgement)
In general when going through ads and booking with a boner see it as:
"duh picktchur ... ouuu numbher ... cawl 4 pooshy"
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English is not my first language either, neither is French.
Every bodies needs are different, however these ladies are not therapists or doctors and they should not be used as a crutch for emotional issues they are not qualified and they have as many issues of their own.
You are the one that quoted me and complained not the other way around.
Maybe because "not advertizing" and "not offering" can be 2 very diferent things, generaly speaking. Its getting harder and harder to get to know what exactly we, the clients, are "purchasing" before making a booking.
We oftent see providers being very vague in their ads or even on their websites. Some of them dont even state their "considerations" fees on their website anymore. Its as if every tactical tricks are thought to, purposely, keep a blurred proposal.
Sex work is not a therapeutic service? Is this really a hill you are willing to die on? I'm truly confused why you are so triggered by this. I'm even more confused why you're always arguing stupid points that there are many approaches to. Use Google and read a little bit.
Tell me which one of these ladies has a doctors degree or therapists degree and with them I will agree.
You want to use them as such be my guest, the hourly rate is probably similar so you won’t be losing out.
As far as taking your advice the same thing applies lol.
Last I looked you actually have to go to University and pass medical exams to be a Psychologist or a doctor who are trained to help people with deep emotional issues , ( google is your friend lol) fucking someone or sucking their dick doesn’t qualify. yeah it does feel great.
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