Hmm, good point. Fredo, Fradi ... possible kin-foke?
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question for clients : what do SP's bring to your life other than sexual gratification?
I love this question. For me, it a moment in time when I forget about the rest of the world. It's a break in my existence where it's just your senses that operate. There something freeing for me to just engage in the basic sexual need. No baggage, no sentiment (or at leat not like with a life partner), just two bodies enjoying each other's bodies. I do my best to always make it an experience for the provider and myself! I have fun if she's having fun.
I could continue to develop this topic, it's quite interesting to me
Human warmth - connection - intimacy
Interesting and educational conversation - contact (Learning about myself and others)
Adventure
Desir
Escape
...
For me the 2 ladies I see most often have become dear friends. They are amazing young ladies who are not only gorgeous but kind, funny, and just fabulous young women.
They have made my life so much better, it eases the passing of my wife somewhat and I will always be grateful for them being in my life.
Especially with my ATF we talk often and I think the relationship is much more than just sexual gratification.
I would be more than happy to drive them to Costco or anywhere lol
But I said other than sexual gratification tho
"Love your question but i'll still answer another one"
And ladies often mention that we don't properly read their publicity or websites. Sooo hard to believe ....
I would sum it as "openness". For the duration of the date I don't feel judged.
We often refer to SP as a form of psychologist be it in many domains such as matrimonial, social, family, appearance etc on top of the obvious sexual aspect.
To be able to address these different delicate subjects is not given to everyone of course but because of the more open mindset of SP we just naturally feel more at ease.
Of course there are all the physical and emotional wellbeings but it still comes back generally to openness.
I often feel like I'm actually making a difference in a client's emotional well being. And sometimes clients just don't get the chance to talk to anyone about deeper subjects very often because they are so busy with work. That part of my job is something really love that makes me proud.
(that being said, I know some providers don't enjoy having to play the role of a psychologist.. I'm a good listener and love conversing and chatting about emotional things, but people's boundaries need to be respected)
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You are so right when it comes to respecting boundaries and when discussing certain subjects to well choose your audience.
A quick example would be nudist camping sites/colonies. Years ago with the wife and kids we would spend all our summers at a nudist resort, not to be mistaken with a swingers resort, but a well managed family resort. To me this was the best thing since sliced bread and started talking about it with friends and family.
Holy shit, I was almost banned from the family and excommunicated from many friend circles. That's what I mean by choose your audience and where it may certainly be less awkward discussing with a SP than in RL circles.
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Nudist resorts and swingers resorts are indeed very different things! I'm sorry people were judgemental.
I think when it comes to SP's everyone has their own tolerance level. I'm used to hearing really tough stories and I have experience with people who suffered from a lot of trauma so I'm okay with listening to all kinds of things and even welcome it, but it's always good to ask before bringing up certain subjects.
Sometimes we can be feeling a bit under the weather and a certain topic may be hard to hear about. Otherwise I would say personally as a gfe provider I feel like that's what I'm here for (of course everyone has a different gfe service and some may feel like keeping the session lighter, and that's totally okay and should be respected)hard question for me to answer these days, i used to meet a SW regularly and we had some kind of connection but she's on hiatus and will most likely leave the business. So the only connections i have are sexual for the time being.
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Pretty sure I’ve already asked but when do you normally consult ads? Morning, lunch break, evening or anytime you’re horny?
Pretty sure I’ve already asked but when do you normally consult ads? Morning, lunch break, evening or anytime you’re horny?
Anytime, never when I am horny! That is a high risk of disaster. When I am horny its time to book with one that already made it to the list. I am not a compulsive consumer so, I buy when I’m done shopping and I shop when I am not in need. If that makes any sense.
I consult Merb every morning while drinking my coffee and water
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