Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

Well the first obvious thing is that they didn’t sleep with anyone else.
Even with SP they are very different.
One is an elegant sensual fashionista who looks like someone out of a fashion magazine always, everything natural no tattoos, piercings enhancements. Very independent, ambitious, smart, always had a nice stable civi career.
The other is more like a wild rock star, tattoos piercings, artistic, lives for the moment.
Where they are very similar is that they are both kind, thoughtful, and total sweethearts and a pleasure to be with.

Women I used to date were gorgeous, very family oriented, the kind that you would be happy to settle down with and spend a lifetime with sex was not really my priority when I was dating, if it happened great but I was never the pushy type, never really needed to be.

Sex is not my priority when dating either

 

[blow20102010]

Questions for clients : when SP's offer promos or discounts, does this make you only want to wait until they do so to book them? and if you do this, why do you ask for discounts when it's no longer being announced?

I've noticed that when I offer discounts, barely anybody takes up the offer, but I often get asked for discounts another time, which is something I find very rude.. Sometimes I wonder if it's worth offering them. I get asked sometimes for a 100$ discount LOL. Obviously I say no, but I wonder why this client had the nerve to ask in the first place.. Any idea? A month or two ago, a client I saw 2 years ago begged me to ''see him every week'' for half of my hourly rate. Do they think we don't have bookings and that we are desperate?

Another unrelated question.. this has to do with 15 minute appointments. I'm not sure if agencies offer those, but I know MP's do. However, for an independent provider, getting ready just for 15 minutes can feel like a waste of time.. It's also riskier to take 15 minute appointments, because it can appear suspicious to incall neighbors. Why try to get 15 minute bookings from indy's? I used to offer them, and I stopped, but I still from time to time get asked for them... However it could be easy to drive to a MP and get a 15 minute booking... When I worked at MP's, I was fine with doing 15 minutes, because I was already there and I didn't have to get ready again every single time.

(sorry if that seemed like a rant lol.. i'm just really trying to understand the psychology behind a lot of this)

Me personally when an SP offer discount, it definitely tempted me. But it is totally rude to ask, but one discount I truly appreciate is for disable people.

 

[Nachoy]

Anyone

If you won the lotto, would you book a SP for a few days? Maybe for a vacation or maybe a staycation.

Absolutely maybe a week somewhere warm anmd sunny and I want you to invite a good friend to come along as well. But you would be paid more.Just don’t tell your friend you are making more

 

[curly]

Why would we spend christmas in a different way than other people?

Because you are part of the 10% to 15% of the population that has a job where you work nights, week-ends or hollidays. That's different than the 85% of the rest of the people. I was just curious

 

[LC18]

Because you are part of the 10% to 15% of the population that has a job where you work nights, week-ends or hollidays. That's different than the 85% of the rest of the people. I was just curious

I don’t work at night, I rarely work on the weekend. Most of the time I would say I am doing a 11-7. Not quite the 9-5 but very close to

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Me personally when an SP offer discount, it definitely tempted me. But it is totally rude to ask, but one discount I truly appreciate is for disable people.

Discounts for disabled people are lovely, but I think it's rude for a disabled person to ask for a discount, even if I do have a lot of empathy for people who have disabilities.. If my rates were higher I would offer disabled people a discount for sure. But I think it's entitled no matter what to ask for a discount...

A lot of SP's are also disabled even if they don't necessarily have visible disabilities. A lot of people forget about this.

Because you are part of the 10% to 15% of the population that has a job where you work nights, week-ends or hollidays. That's different than the 85% of the rest of the people. I was just curious

Not all SP's work nights, week ends or holidays. I don't work past 11pm personally, 12am at the very latest. When I had a girlfriend, I didn't work during the weekends because I prioritized seeing her instead. A lot of SP's are away for the holidays with their families..

 

[Hemme]

Cg vs rcg: you feel a difference? Which one you enjoy more if not both.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Cg vs rcg: you feel a difference? Which one you enjoy more if not both.

cute girl vs relatively cute girl? what is this esoteric language you're speaking?

 

[LC18]

Cg vs rcg: you feel a difference? Which one you enjoy more if not both.

It depends on the man I’m with

 

[Jordangoat23]

Why would age and ethnicity be equivalent? You mention age but only talk about black or indian after. I discriminate against age as I don't see people younger than 30 years old. As for others, their answer may differ. I also don't ask for ethnicity per se, but for a short physical description to know who I will meet, especially if I have to recognize the client in a lobby for instance.

Never been disqualified for my age so I never knew prostitutes refused to see tricks under or over a certain age.

 

[MtlNewbie]

This is so annoying, because I'm already generous enough to add extra acronyms to my gfe service lol. I also think it's weird that I'm constantly if I offer DT or greek despite only advertising GFE, and listing all acronyms.

Anyhow, next question?

Just think of this person as a timewaster. People all have their intricacies.

 

[Johnny test]

Cg vs rcg: you feel a difference? Which one you enjoy more if not both.

 

[LC18]

I understood it as cowgirl vs reverse cowgirl

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Never been disqualified for my age so I never knew prostitutes refused to see tricks under or over a certain age.

you seem to really enjoy typing the word prostitute. i do admit it is a long word, full of letters

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I understood it as cowgirl vs reverse cowgirl

I had to google it but I was definitely being bratty.

For me it definitely depends on the person.. cg or rcg are not my favorite positions, but I've been told it's enjoyable to partake in these activities with me lol

 

[Nachoy]

To the SPs that have an age limits
Why no one under 30?
Isn’t that ageism

 

[LC18]

To the SPs that have an age limits
Why no one under 30?
Isn’t that ageism

I don’t want to see anyone under 21 because it’s too young for me. I also doubt I’ll have anything in common with someone under that age. Is it ageism? Maybe

 

[Hemme]

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Cow girl and reverse cowgirl

 

[DouMan]

To the SPs that have an age limits
Why no one under 30?
Isn’t that ageism

It's called maturity

 

[Lunaseraphim]

To the SPs that have an age limits
Why no one under 30?
Isn’t that ageism

Not necessarily. I don't see anyone under 21, because I would feel creepy if I did.

Otherwise, I kinda get why some people have a policy of seeing no one under 30. I have clients in their 20's who are lovely and amazing, but really often I've noticed that unfortunately younger clients tend to be more rude or pull no call no show's or ask for very very last minute appointments ''can i come see you in 30 minutes'' like no lol. I don't think it's ageism, it's just that I think a lot of guys in their 20's have a different lifestyle and may not be respectful or appreciative of a SP's time as much as guys who are a bit older.

I think part of it has to do with income as well, a lot of younger guys are students and can't afford to see an indy SP. When I charged much lower, my clients were often younger.

To tell you the truth, even guys in their 50's and 60's sometimes act like clowns and aren't serious about booking, so I'm making a generalization based on observations.