Ask us anything part 3

[minutemenX]

I believe that Ukrainian SPs can play a huge positive role in bringing these guys back to life

https://www.cnn.com/2025/01/12/europe/sexual-rehabilitation-demand-ukraine-intl/index.html

What do you girls think?

 

[Sylar]

The clients who like me the most tend to have a certain profile and personality type. (it's varied, but I do see certain types of men more often than others) - @Lunaseraphim

Taken from a different discussion as I didn’t want to derail the conversation.
Do you SPs have a type / profile of men that tend to book you more than others? And what type if you are willing to share.

And if yes, is it because that type keeps returning or is it already the similar profile of men that inquires in the first place.

 

[LC18]

Question

—>What are the men creating a fake number to insult providers thinking? Do they think they’re gonna make us cry? <— I find them pathetic at most and lonely at last. Imagine how boring and lonely your life has to be to wake up at 8:45 am on a Sunday and the first thing you do is text the N word to someone you don’t know and who doesn’t know you.

If this person is from here, there you go poor lost soul, I am giving you the attention you’re desperately craving ❤️

 

[CenterofNH]

Question

—>What are the men creating a fake number to insult providers thinking? Do they think they’re gonna make us cry? <— I find them pathetic at most and lonely at last. Imagine how boring and lonely your life has to be to wake up at 8:45 am on a Sunday and the first thing you do is text the N word to someone you don’t know and who doesn’t know you.

If this person is from here, there you go poor lost soul, I am giving you the attention you’re desperately craving ❤️

People like that are why I would never complain about a provider's screening requirements.

 

[Workingman]

Question

—>What are the men creating a fake number to insult providers thinking? Do they think they’re gonna make us cry? <— I find them pathetic at most and lonely at last. Imagine how boring and lonely your life has to be to wake up at 8:45 am on a Sunday and the first thing you do is text the N word to someone you don’t know and who doesn’t know you.

If this person is from here, there you go poor lost soul, I am giving you the attention you’re desperately craving ❤️

Attention. Don't give them any.

 

[Rebaynia]

How do you get your condoms?
Purchase in bulk?
Are they available free from health clinics?

Personally I am choosy about my condoms, so I buy the biggest boxs in varied sizes in the brand I like, and keep myself well stocked. I have a backup brand also, and when I realize I am out of my first choice, I have my backup for that visit, and restock at my next available moment. I often will have a backup box at home ready to empty out into my bag when it is time to restock my bag. I do the same with my choice of lube. Running out is not an option, as it is a necessity for this.
I believe there are places that condoms can be had for free. I remember 20 years ago when I worked threw an agency, the driver would stop somewhere for us to all reload from a clinic that offered them for free. I know I could go, but am too shy to, and like I said am picky about what I use these days. They had 1 time use, sample size, lube packs as well.

 

[john11296]

Why do so many SP's accept DATY but refuse fingering ? Is there something I'm missing ?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Why do so many SP's accept DATY but refuse fingering ? Is there something I'm missing ?

They are really different, they can't be compared. A tongue is not as sharp as a knife but nails often are.

 

[Nachoy]

Why do so many SP's accept DATY but refuse fingering ? Is there something I'm missing ?

I think SPs worry about dirty fingers .
Think about all the things your hand touches
Is there any dirt under your nails?

 

[john11296]

They are really different, they can't be compared. A tongue is not as sharp as a knife but nails often are.

Is that the reason ? I always thought it was because SP's are scared to catch some kind of disease from fingering

 

[john11296]

I think SPs worry about dirty fingers .
Think about all the things your hand touches
Is there any dirt under your nails?

I'm freshly showered and nails nicely trimmed, no dirt. I don't think that's the reason

 

[DouMan]

Is that the reason ? I always thought it was because SP's are scared to catch some kind of disease from fingering

I'm freshly showered and nails nicely trimmed, no dirt. I don't think that's the reason

There is another reason that is more delicate to mention for SPs which is technique.

Let's not kid ourselves but we are not all gods gift to women when it comes to sexual pleasure. Some are complete morons when blood flow goes to their dicks, "dahh pushhy pushhy, me gonna prime yah". They never take into consideration if the lady is lubricated or not and shove their big fat DRY fingers up her pussy as if there was no end, then go into a pumping rage that would put the Eveready Easter Bunny to shame to "make her cum".

Of course some will say all she has to do is tell me to slow down but unfortunately when they have to warn us it may already be too late. Women's genital area, like ours, are very sensitive. We can just think how we feel having our glans rubbed by a dry palm non stop or even worse our frenulum as if it were a guitar string. It's the same for women's anatomy.

Add to this that their body is their "work tool", if I may say, that can be hurt from just a few seconds of awkwardness which may even require a few days off in order to heal. For many this is their livelihood, their bread + butter, days off = no income.

 

[Julia Sky]

There is another reason that is more delicate to mention for SPs which is technique.

Let's not kid ourselves but we are not all gods gift to women when it comes to sexual pleasure. Some are complete morons when blood flow goes to their dicks, "dahh pushhy pushhy, me gonna prime yah". They never take into consideration if the lady is lubricated or not and shove their bit fat DRY fingers up her pussy as if there was no end, then go into a pumping rage that would put the Eveready Easter Bunny to shame to "make her cum".

Of course some will say all she has to do is tell me to slow down but unfortunately when they have to warn us it may already be too late. Women's genital area, like ours, are very sensitive. We can just think how we feel having our glans rubbed by a dry palm non stop or even worse our frenulum as if it were a guitar string. It's the same for women's anatomy.

Add to this that their body is their "work tool", if I may say, that can be hurt from just a few seconds of awkwardness which may even require a few days off in order to heal. For many this is their livelihood, their bread + butter, days off = no income.

Nailed it (pun intended lol). Technique is the biggest factor for me. I enjoy fingers when done the way I like it, but I'm very sensitive down there and going too rough with fingers simply hurts. I've been injured and had to take time off work a few times. Recently told someone to take it slow as I like the feeling of being filled up more than the movement of fingers, and he acknowledged what I said yet 5mins later I could've sworn he was trying to tear a 2nd pussy in my pussy lol. Some people simply seem to lose their ability to think when they're horny.

Telling someone to slow down is obviously an option, but it's surprising the amount of people who can't follow instructions or go right back to the thing you dislike after a minute.

 

[T'storm]

Why do so many SP's accept DATY but refuse fingering ? Is there something I'm missing ?

When I see my ATF we have a deal. As soon as I show up at her place(even before Covid) I wash my hands really well and then I can proceed. The way I do it is rub my hand over her panties(when she wears them.lol) and have got a technique that makes her wet. After I can go downtown with my mouth or a(1) finger to find her G spot and this will often make her squirt. She mentioned to me a long time ago that many are too rough as mentioned by you ladies on here but I have the right way to make her cum.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Is that the reason ? I always thought it was because SP's are scared to catch some kind of disease from fingering

Yes, also. But indeed, some nails even trimmed can scratch, or the way you use your finger, can hurt physically. And as Luna says, the client's incapacity to follow instructions is a deterrent; going fast never, never made me wet, only hurt me.

Of course some will say all she has to do is tell me to slow down but unfortunately when they have to warn us it may already be too late.

Exactly. I am open to the activity but the second I realize a client can't be careful enough, I will not allow it. Some also try to insert their finger first thing, no lube, no vaginal lubrication. I always say "Not now, I'll tell you when", then they proceed to DATY for 8 seconds and try again with their finger. I won't allow a third try.

 

[LC18]

Some men shove their fingers in you without any warning, permission or lubrification…

If done correctly and with permission, I’m all for it.

 

[john11296]

Yes, also. But indeed, some nails even trimmed can scratch, or the way you use your finger, can hurt physically. And as Luna says, the client's incapacity to follow instructions is a deterrent; going fast never, never made me wet, only hurt me.


Exactly. I am open to the activity but the second I realize a client can't be careful enough, I will not allow it. Some also try to insert their finger first thing, no lube, no vaginal lubrication. I always say "Not now, I'll tell you when", then they proceed to DATY for 8 seconds and try again with their finger. I won't allow a third try.

From my personal experiences, most SP's I've encountered simply refuse it from the get go. I'll start playing with the clit and they'll throw in something like ''just don't insert your fingers'' (without giving me a chance). I will assume it's from their bad previous experiences.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

simply refuse it from the get go. I'll start playing with the clit and they'll throw in something like ''just don't insert your fingers'' (without giving me a chance). I will assume it's from their bad previous experiences.

Indeed, I do that as well if I feel the need to.

 

[CantSeeMrHappy]

I saw nothing on BFE - so let's try this question - role reversal, me giving the boyfriend experience. How often do you do / receive? Those receiving, how much do you appreciate?

This really gets me fired up, taking charge and pampering the woman while I give her (my interpretation) of a BFE. Massage of course, getting rid of any knots in the back, neck, upper neck, legs, especially feet, ankles, lower leg, upper leg. Some very smooth and light teasing with the buttocks going from the back to the legs, then the flip and the fun starts for both.

IOW, no rush to get started in intercourse. Why I like taking at least 1hr sessions, and dedicate half that time to making the woman feel great, while giving positive comments on what I find very attractive on her body.

 

[SpencerSpender49]

Fingering can also fuck up vaginal pH balance. That means increased risks of UTis, BV and yeast infection. Which will results in sp taking a week off from work to take antibiotics.