I’m litterally on fire with a new SP I met recently.
I told her it’s a bit like falling in love but without obligation.
I know this would probably won’t last long so I’m pretty much down to earth.
I just want to enjoy the moment.
Don't fall in love with your regular SP
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I told her it’s a bit like falling in love but without obligation.
I know this would probably won’t last long so I’m pretty much down to earth.
I just want to enjoy the moment.
I just mean that the notion of being a "regular" normally applies to us, clients... not the other way around.
We become regulars, they become favs or ATFs.
But in the end, I understood perfectly what you meant. I was just having fun playing with terminology.
I don't agree. I could have a regular which is not necessarily a favorite...
I believe SPs could have regulars and favorites as well. Why not? But they will probably never mention it.
That would probably be a good "Ask us anything" question.
I think if you ask them the answer will be of course your my favourite just like if you ask are you the first of the day lol.
Why spoil the fantasy.
I am sure they have both regulars and favourites, chances are the ones that are regulars are their favourites, who doesn’t favour a regular cash flow.
Frankly, this is something I don't need to ask. I just know it by seeing other clients comments on this board.
Real question is: Does some SPs would openly designate favorites on this board like some client does for SPs?
Agree with Bodick on that one.
Referring to the ones I would see regularly. Several are no longer active.
For me ATF is really that, " All Time Favourite ".
A regular doesn’t necessarily become an ATF.
I get what you guys mean. It's just me. I'm an excessive by nature: either I see an SP once, maybe twice, either she becomes a Fav. There's no in-between for me.
Exactly, like a parent that tells all his/her children that they are their favorite!
I try not to ask, but sometimes when I ask "How was your day?" I add on "Busy?" At the end.
The right answer is always " No, it was slow." But they know that. lolI mean, my regulars were regulars until they retired or I met someone I liked more. I sometimes go back when my Fav is unavailable.
Then let's replace the term "regular" by "plan B". Ha!Ha!
OK, the only regular I can think of is Daryn @ VOG. I see her once every few years just to make sure she's still the sexpot I remember
There's no better plan B than Daryn if she's available
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I gotta give you credit, you and fradi are the only ones who ever mention their atfs . Through my recollection that is lolOK, the only regular I can think about is Daryn @ VOG. I see her once every few years just to make sure she's still the sexpot I remember
There's no better plan B than Daryn if she's available
Lol.. I'm not good with pretending... I'm not so easy to see for the first time, but once convinced to meet someone...Exactly, like a parent that tells all his/her children that they are their favorite!
I try not to ask, but sometimes when I ask "How was your day?" I add on "Busy?" At the end.
I have had some regulars who when they contact I roll my eyes and have to convince myself to go see them, and they know who they are, as they have to convince me to go see them as well while I am resistant and drag out heading out the door. while I hope someone I do want to see contacts me instead.
Then I have some who once I have met them and know I like them, just write and say hi. And with an exchange of like 2 messages I am already out the door to go see them, or when it is quiet might even send them a message just to see how they are doing if they are single and it is already agreed to be alright.
Those I enjoy seeing know I like seeing them. Often it has to do with how they treat me when I am with them whether I like them or not.
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Shit...can't have such plan B around here...(up north)OK, the only regular I can think of is Daryn @ VOG. I see her once every few years just to make sure she's still the sexpot I remember
There's no better plan B than Daryn if she's available
I heard that she is so popular, I don't think she fits in B category...
I know I am using the term "ATF" wrong, but I just use "ATF" to just refer to my favorites since there isn't an acroynm for a regular favorite lol, RF?
I don't even think I have an "All Time" favorite. That's crazy to me. I have favorites who I'll see once a month, then I have my top 1-2 favorites I will see whenever they are available, and will cancel other sessions to see them instead.
Then I have regulars who I'll see if nobody else is available, my "safeties" (guaranteed to be a good time)
I don't even think I have an "All Time" favorite. That's crazy to me. I have favorites who I'll see once a month, then I have my top 1-2 favorites I will see whenever they are available, and will cancel other sessions to see them instead.
Then I have regulars who I'll see if nobody else is available, my "safeties" (guaranteed to be a good time)
What do you mean they have to convince you?
You first say no or are resistant, but they insist until you eventually agree?
That’s interesting that the ones you enjoy seeing you don’t necessarily like. When I see a regular, it’s like meeting an old friend. Smiles all around and good vibes. Similar to what Fradi said, I interpret her enjoyment as her liking me. Maybe that’s a reflection on me, because I enjoy seeing people I like, but not the opposite. This is feeling more and more like psychoanalysis!
Of course, the elephant in the room is $ allowing one to overlook the enjoyment or having to like the person. I can see how it would be harder to get out of the house for something you won’t enjoy as much.
Pretty much. I don't treat this like an escorting job, more like dating, or ffriends who help support me. Business aspect only being the money exchange, and a timer set. Those I'm not so keen on, have had to convince me to see them again. Kind of like those I haven't seen yet, often need to convince me to see them as well. It isn't just contact me and I'm willing to see just anyone. I am uncomfortable with new people untill I meet them. I see maybe 4-5 new people each month. The rest are callbacks.
I didn't say that. I like most people who I have met once we get past the first visit. I just struggle with trusting new visits aren't just false calls, or that the person contacting is genuinely someone I want to meet. The ones I enjoy, I enjoy the person they are, often dispite how their bedroom skills might be. When bedroom activity is just bj and penetration I personally find it boring and basic, though they will enjoy it even if I'm not particularly enjoying it. Doesn't mean I don't like them. I like most of the people I get the pleasure to spend time with. I don't enjoy time with people I don't like.
You got it backwards... I don't enjoy sex with people I don't like. Like most I have tollerated bad sex in relationships for years because I liked/loved the guy I was with. Same for this job, unless I like the person I don't want to see them. I won't see, or have to be pressured and convinced to see someone I didn't like, and doesn't mean I enjoyed the time with them, just means they enjoyed their time with me, apparently enough to not want to accept I don't want to see them again.
I have to support my kids, so when finances are low sometimes we have to do things we don't like. But at least the majority of people who I meet I actually do like. Its like 2-3 total over an entire year, that even though I'm not keen on will try to convince me to see them. When I am dealing with emotional lows it is often harder, but they apparently seem to enjoy anyways, as they keep calling back. As many here say there's a lot of women out there. I personally don't get why those ones I admitted to not enjoying time with, keep calling, 1 even outright telling him our personalities don't click. I don't get it. But it is their choice to contact who they want.
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