These guys who go to clubs to get laid are players but nothing like band members, a few friends of mine have been in bands from 16 till now and nobody gets laid more than them. A plus for them is that most of the girls they meet expect no relationship. So, if you want to get laid a lot for free play an instrument well ( or sing ) and hit the road.
As for the girls who meet in a club and expect a relationship with a good looking charming guy, What were you thinking?
I was on a forum recently and you would be surpised how many dudes piped up saying they were in bands and never had a date and have known others. Granted it is pretty damn rare but still. It isn't a sure thing.
You sound resentful of some men?
I am in my mid 40s' If it wasn't for escorts I would never have even kissed a girl, aside from one peck on the lips from a stripper about 20 years ago. Please, go on about how I and my other fellow forever alone bros shouldn't be at least a wee bit resentful.
Normals, in particular, females, and in double particular hot females really just don't get it.
Not all guys need an escort to get laid.
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Some of us do.
I hate to break it to you but life isn't purely black and white.
I am really not in the mood to have an argument or even discussion about this. To say that that's a grandiose generalized statement.
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In any case. I don't have time to have a petty argument about something this trivial. Have your opinion. I don't really care. I am just stating that I don't believe things are that black and white.
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So if you were looking for an Ice Hockey player you would have as much chance in the Australian Outback as rural Manitoba. Yes there is Ice Hockey in the land down under, they even play in Isreal. However the grandiose generalized statement is basically true and exceptions prove it.
Some band members couldn't get laid in a female prison with a fist full of pardons but most can and most get laid like crazy and they do it without effort. I mean who would even consider such a statement to be at all odd. Water wet, fire hot, Justin Beiber evil, band dudes get vagina thrown at them.
Also night clubs are a bad place to meet a dude of quality. News flash, guys don't go to clubs to dance unless they are gay, they go to get drunk and to get their dicks wet. There are exceptions but they just prove the rule. If you are lookign for a guy to smash you, go to a club. If you are looking for a socially inept obese nerd who will worship the ground you walk on, do face to face roleplaying or board games.
Sure some people get lucky but it isn't a winning high odds strategy.
It's ironic that on a escort review board so many members go and pass judgment on OTHER members doing the same thing they are doing. Everyone has their own reasons and there shouldn't be judgment passed on anyone - old young, rich poor.
That isn't fair or accurate. If he was looking for escorts at a church instead of merb or BP than what you said would be fair. He isn't saying it is wrong for a girl to seek dick. He is saying if a girl is seeking a decent guy she shouldn't be going where they are in a small minority.
If you are seeking someone who is reasonable and smart you don't go to a nazi skinhead rally. Sure you might luck out but odds are you won't
To be honest it seems from your reaction that you have some guilt about your past history that you haven't been able to accept.
