Did a search and they do have the ability but is only used if the border guard is suspicious of your entry, then you go to a secondary check point to increase their search.
Thanks for pointing that out, never expected that.
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Did a search and they do have the ability but is only used if the border guard is suspicious of your entry, then you go to a secondary check point to increase their search.
Thanks for pointing that out, never expected that.
Here’s a couple interesting ones
Does the industry have any go-to ‘operating’ solutions for Indy/Agency/MP?
I.E. organized/sharable schedule platform, client/payment/expense records, universal blacklist, etc. Or is everyone out here really just using excel sheets, WhatsApp groups, and their stock OS schedule app?
Also, for SWs who actually declare their high income — since cash businesses are the most likely to be audited, what are the more common ways it’s done to come out squeaky clean?
Those are questions I’d personally only feel comfortable answering to a fellow SW. Maybe the others here have different feelings about it.
Yes, like Giselle mentioned, they will get suspicious if an attractive young woman travels alone often and wears expensive clothes.
They might not assume she’s a SW, they might think she is carrying d r u g s. They’ll flag her regardless and eventually when they have gather enough evidences they’ll question her at the borders. That’s when it gets complicated.
I always tell my friends to dress modestly and to have a good story for the reason they’re travelling.
Well, I would say the same for anyone who has a business and is self-employed: being financially responsible; paying your sales taxes, instalment payments and taxes on time; and not making mistakes and irregularities in your books are good ways to avoid drawing attention to yourself.
I wasn’t expecting specifics, was just hoping for a yes or no as to wether actual tools did exist for these things, or if most just break their heads ‘Macgyver’ing their op solutions through it all.
I apologize if the inquiry came across as intrusive or made you uncomfortable.
I was always under the impression they weren’t, but a fellow Merbite just filled me in on how Escort earnings in Canada are legal and can simply be reported using industry code 812900, rendering my original question totally baseless
. Thanks for answering, though!
My answer to this would be : this is 2024.... Also, you're on a review board. Most clients fear being scammed and most sex workers fear being killed. Put two and two together and you can come to a logical, intelligent conclusion haha... I don't mean to sound dry but the question feels infantilizing at worse or naive at best.
I was always under the impression they weren’t, but a fellow Merbite just filled me in on how Escort earnings in Canada are legal and can simply be reported using industry code 812900, rendering my original question totally baseless
Even if it wasn't legal we would have to declare income. Even criminals declare something! I know a lot of escorts who declare with another job title instead. Doesn't really matter what job you say you do as long as you pay your taxes.
I declare as an escort, yes.I was always under the impression they weren’t, but a fellow Merbite just filled me in on how Escort earnings in Canada are legal and can simply be reported using industry code 812900, rendering my original question totally baseless
I have have travelled the border several times by plane and car as a permanent resident. Even after my report to the police after a non paying client tried to rip me off after not paying for service. I have shared my id info on another via advertising platform but stopped as now I only see regulars and book one or two appointments every two weeks. On long weekends I have gone to the state of New York, flew up to Florida several times Vermont etc and have not been flagged. Maybe it's because I am Israeli, my civilian job or they never assume a Jewish girl is crossing for nefarious reasons lol.
I have been asked this several times, what are you doing, where are you staying, what do I do for a living ( quote my civilian job) do you know anyone where I am staying etc my rule of thumb if you want to cross the border by plane or car is not to look obvious, I don't go dress to the nines, I remove my fake nails if I have any and I don't travel with luxury goods as they already know at my civilian job that I would be able to afford Gucci ,haha as I assume they already know my salary from glimpsing my Israeli passport or other key indicators. My rule of thumb Is be confident, do not dress expensively, just be as normal as possible and look like a ,"civilian". This could change however if Trump gets back into office. I don't work in the US but just travel for leisure. I had colleagues of mine stopped because of how they look and if you scream "sex worker" or have lots of visible tattoos the American border will judge harshly as as happened to some colleagues who had lifetime bans which is very unfair.
I have been asked this several times, what are you doing, where are you staying, what do I do for a living ( quote my civilian job) do you know anyone where I am staying etc my rule of thumb if you want to cross the border by plane or car is not to look obvious, I don't go dress to the nines, I remove my fake nails if I have any and I don't travel with luxury goods as they already know at my civilian job that I would be able to afford Gucci ,haha as I assume they already know my salary from glimpsing my Israeli passport or other key indicators. My rule of thumb Is be confident, do not dress expensively, just be as normal as possible and look like a ,"civilian". This could change however if Trump gets back into office. I don't work in the US but just travel for leisure. I had colleagues of mine stopped because of how they look and if you scream "sex worker" or have lots of visible tattoos the American border will judge harshly as as happened to some colleagues who had lifetime bans which is very unfair.
Im guilty of this sometimes haha!
I do like taking control but until some extent.
Unless it’s a role play where I have to stick to the persona I just like to go with the flow and guiding you to please me. Nothing too crazy
Yes Men mostly “ designed “ society and you have to agree that Women more or less benefit from it. No one is condoning cheating for men or women, but it is much easier for women to cheat than a man. I don’t care about the Bible or any other book and women can use the Bible to justify their actions as well.
I’m talking about the natural world where the male is biologically motivated to spread genetics but our social pressures discourage promiscuity , for both sexes. Men do not have wombs so the consequences of sex are much more serious for a women.
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Hum. This is such an oversimplification. The reason it isn't women who "designed" society is literally because for centuries we were seen as possessions and we didn't have rights, let alone the right to design anything that wasn't a household, a meal, and taking care of babies. We don't "benefit from the society men built" we just "finally have a right to exist as people alongside men in the society they were hoping to build mostly for themselves". Not to mention many things we have thanks to women of the past, on a much smaller scale because of the reasons I just cited, but it's still disingenuous to say that women benefit from the society that men built. We would probably benefit a lot more from a society that was built by both sexes equally.
Mostly for women. Men are very often praised for having ("scoring") multiple partners but women are vilified for it. People often imply that a woman's value resides in her sexual past (or present)... Not saying it never happens to men but not nearly as often
EDIT : this is a thread for asking questions, I'm not sure why it turned into a thread about soul ties and patriarchy (again because you brought the subject back) tbh. My thought is that someone who believes sex tarnishes the soul probably shouldn't be on an escort review board. I can't believe this has to be said haha
It takes skill for a guy to score multiple partners, which is why they are praised when successful at it... can't really say the same for women.
Honestly all it takes is a good personality. I said what I said. Ive had sex with a variety of men (in my personal life) because they made me laugh, were kind, etc.
It's also actually not women's fault that men are easy to convince, too, so I don't know why we're being mistreated for having sex. Instead of verbally abusing women and resenting them because "they access sex more easily", men should try to have standards and start refusing sexual advances as well. Then we'd be on par and there would be no need to be hateful towards women.
I hate when people respond with this because it somehow implies that it's ok and normal to abuse women because men are easier to take to a bed. None of this is normal. I can see why anyone who has this mentality has a hard time with women. Turns out women don't like men who think it's ok to verbally abuse us because of our sexual needs or past.
Like, it's easier for men (and has been for decades and centuries) to find a job. It's easier for men to be in positions of power. It's easier for men to travel without being harassed. It's easier for men to go topless without being harassed despite it actually being legal for women too.
Are we going to start justifying the verbal abuse of men who dare travel a lot? How often do you see men be called dirty sluts, low value, and "for the streets" because they're topless in the summer?
What we're going to do is stop justifying abuse and bullying because "boohoo you can do something more easily".
Now, I really think we should get back on the topic, which was : ask us anything (in the context of escorting). If anyone wants to respond to me, you can quote my post in a new thread if you really want. I don't mind opening one and calling it "Verbal abuse : let's justify it" <3
Are we going to start justifying the verbal abuse of men who dare travel a lot? How often do you see men be called dirty sluts, low value, and "for the streets" because they're topless in the summer?
What we're going to do is stop justifying abuse and bullying because "boohoo you can do something more easily".
Now, I really think we should get back on the topic, which was : ask us anything (in the context of escorting). If anyone wants to respond to me, you can quote my post in a new thread if you really want. I don't mind opening one and calling it "Verbal abuse : let's justify it" <3
Perhaps its not exactly fair to answer a "general view" with your unique experience. Were you the one to initiate or were they? I can tell you, that making someone laugh and be kind (aka the game of seduction) isn't given to everyone. I'm almost certain that if those guys weren't above average in looks or personality, they probably wouldn't have had as good of a chance right? Which is about 90% of their experience. Not saying it never happens... but just that its highly unlikely.
100% agree, but for most men, its not as easy. That definitly is never a reason to be hateful towards women. In no way am I expressing any excuse for poor treatment of others.
Again, I didn't once bring up that its ok to abuse anyone. I answered a very specific statement only.
None of these points have any relevancy to the statement made. On these different points, I 100% agree. Women should be able to feel safe. But danger lurks for everyone btw. You think its 100% safe for a guy alone, you think guys don't find themselves having to fight to survive ? This isn't a man vs women situation... this is a person vs asshole situation. But are creeps generally men ? YES. Sadly, there will always be assholes that intimidate the vulnerable.
Again, mixing in a different point which has nothing to do with the original statement. You think it doesn't happen that men get unwanted attention ? Where women think its ok to sexualize a guy that doesn't want to be and to be called a fag or gay just because he's not interested ? Again, there are assholes in both genders.
So now that you've said what you had to say, you're deciding to get back on topic and nobody else can have an opinion?
Please stop turning everything into a man vs women thing. I can guarantee you, that its not easy for men either. I've had weird situations happen with drunk women. Having some ugly drunken women brushing herself against me, trying to kiss and lick my neck in a bar, trying to grab my crotch when it was clear I wasn't interested and to be laughed and called gay for not recipricating.
But this had nothing to do with being verbally abusive or any type of violence towards women. You made it go there. And I'm choosing not to open a new thread simply because you chose not to.
Edited: typos... sorry, I don't use ChatGPT for my replies.
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I'm sorry I couldn't read all of that because I think it's posted in the wrong thread :/
Bon bon bon…maybe we should just lock this thread, start a third one and try to stay on topic.
Ask us anything about the job. If you happen to start elaborating on questions/answers you can start a separate thread
Ask us anything about the job. If you happen to start elaborating on questions/answers you can start a separate thread
Ive had an issue with allergies one time.. I’m anaphylactic to cinnamon and the client was chewing cinnamon gum. But I keep an epipen in my work room so it didn’t end up too bad.
As for a client living with their parents, it’s a non issue because I only receive these days. Once, when I went to an outcall though, the clients mom opened the door when I arrived.. mortifying experience. She made it seem like it was normal though.
Might be a silly question. I always shaved/waxed my pubic hairs before seeing an SP. I just feels it the most comfortable for both side. I was wondering if an client is not shaved, does it bother you? Is there more shaved clients or hairy clients?
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